Chinese Compliments
Chinese Compliment Responses
- Rejecting
- Disagreeing and denigrating (No, Im older and uglier.)
- Expressing embarrassment (Dont say that. Im embarrassed.)
- Explaining (No, I didnt watch my diet and Ive gained some weight.)
- Thanking and denigrating (Thank you, but the sweater is not that nice.)
- Accepting
- Thanking only
- Most responses to compliments in Chinese tend to be rejections, characterized by disagreement and self-denigration.
- The norm of Chinese society is to appear humble. Modesty is one of the most important constituents of self-image. As a result, Chinese speakers choose to lower themselves when responding to compliments, believing that appearing humble will help maintain and enhance their face and image.
Above passages from Chen (1993), p. 55 [©].
[ Research notes on the section above... ]
Reference
Chen, R. (1993). Responding to compliments: A contrastive study of politeness strategies between American English and Chinese speakers. Journal of Pragmatics, 20, 49-75.
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